Why Psychics Need Support After Learning to Connect

Why does trying to solve your connection problems alone create more doubt instead of confidence? What's the difference between problem-solving correctly and the way most people try to fix their blocks?

In this episode, Crystal reveals why the support you receive during AND after learning matters more than the techniques themselves, and why trying to figure it out on your own keeps you stuck in the same patterns.

You'll discover what actually helps you move through doubt when it appears, why getting guidance on how to problem-solve correctly changes everything, and what transforms repeated validation-seeking into genuine trust.

If you've been trying to work through your blocks alone and wondering why nothing's changing, this is what you've been missing. 

Questions Answered in This Episode:

• Why does trying to solve your connection problems alone create more doubt?
• What's the difference between problem-solving correctly and the way most people try to fix their blocks?
• Why doesn't validation from clients make you trust your connection?
• How do you know if it's your brain or an actual message coming through?
• What actually transforms doubt into genuine trust?

This is the third of five episodes breaking down The Conscious Psychic™ Certification Program. You'll discover why trying to problem-solve alone keeps you stuck, what happens when you try to build confidence through client validation, and why having access to guidance on how to solve problems correctly changes everything instead of creating more disbelief.

RESOURCES:

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Stop trying to figure this out alone. The Conscious Psychic™ Certification Program  gives you the ongoing guidance and support you need to problem-solve correctly so doubt transforms into confidence instead of creating more disbelief.

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Transcript

Crystal Moreland: 0:00

Welcome back to the podcast. Today we are on episode three of a five part series talking all about how the Conscious Psychic Certification Program is the thing that you have been missing and how it is going to change everything for you when it comes to your connection. If you have not already gone back and listened to the first two episodes on this, do so because they are incredible. They give you a key look into some of the components inside of the program. There's one on the confidence formula, which is my proprietary method for bridging the gap between what's actually blocking you and keeping you from feeling confident in your connection. And then there's one around why learning to connect isn't actually enough for psychics. And in that, I share all about the curriculum. that you will find inside of the program and why it's so robust and how it actually sets a new standard for the industry, for you and how you connect. And it actually addresses the things that other psychic development programs miss, which is what's continuing to keep you in this space of doubt or disbelief or a lack of 100 % confidence and faith in your connection. And today, We're talking about one of the things that makes me the most excited about not only when you first come into the program, but a year after, two years after, five years after, like way, way, way down the road. And that is the ongoing support that's a part of it. Now, what I'm going to share with you in today's episode, I just want to preface this by saying, I want to say the words, you get lifetime access, but for legal reasons, you can't actually use that terminology. So it's access for the lifetime of the program. OK. So we'll just preface that. But when I'm saying ongoing, this means that like as long as this exists in the world, which I do not see it going anywhere. It feels like the thing that is just gonna be like, I'm gonna be going to my deathbed one day, very, very old and gray, and this will still exist in the world. ah That's what it very much feels like to me, but. When I talk about ongoing support, that's what it means because so many times when you come into a program or a container, and I've seen this a lot actually in the spiritual development spaces and I understand why they do it and I'm going to share kind of like where I see them coming from for it, what the reasons are behind that and why I'm doing it differently. But I don't see a lot of these spaces. oh being a space that's ongoing. And that was something that was really, really important to me to provide. But before I dive into that, I just want to give you a little preview of in two words, what you can experience when you come into the program. These two words actually came in today from a former client. So I had the distinct honor and pleasure and just, oh my God, it was just absolutely amazing to be invited to speak at Soul Word Summit last year. I guess that was technically this year, we're still in 2025. Gosh, it feels like eons ago, but to speak at their very first annual conference. And I... spoke at that conference, I led a workshop there, and then I also um was a practitioner. So I did readings for people in between all the different events that they had going on throughout this two-day conference. And it was the most amazing experience. I have no doubt that we will be having Katie and Maria, the founders of Soulward Summit on the podcast here soon as we prepare for Soul Word Summit 2026, where I am going to be a practitioner again, and I kill out freaking whites. It's like the best group of people. If you're a spiritual entrepreneur, like you want to be there. You just want to be there. Really, if you're just an entrepreneur who is listening to this episode or this podcast in general, you want to be there. It's it's your people. It's such a great, great space to be in. But. As a part of Soulward Summit 2026, I'm also a part of the community for Soulward Summit, the online community and uh authentic business club, which is uh run by another group of wonderful women. And I'm inside of that community. And I had shared about the workshop that I am hosting actually. later today in real time on Friday, December 12th. And one of my former clients responded to that and was talking about the work that we did. And here's the two words. Here's what you can expect when you come into the conscious psychic certification program. Life changing. OK. OK. So just hold on to that. because that is the reality of it. And that is part of the reason why the way that I have set up the ongoing support side of the program was so important to me. So let's talk about it. First, I just wanna kind of give you an example, I guess you could say, something to compare to. from what I've seen and listen, I am one human being. have not gone and traveled the world and seen all of the different programs out there, but from my experience, what I have seen in the industry is that most generally when there is some sort of development program, it's run like a launch, right? Like it's run in batches. So this means that there's specific enrollment dates. And when you enroll in that date, you jump into that cohort. So maybe this is like a spring 2026 cohort, right? And you jump in, you enroll into that, and it's you and that group of people that joined at the same time, you're all going together. You're all moving together throughout the program. You're all in the same place. You're all learning at the same speed, so to speak, or the same cadence. And then once that is done, let's say it's like an eight week program, right? Once that eight week program is done, that cohort is done. And so for the next cohort, unless you're enrolled in that too, that's a different group of people. And each one is kind of like open and close, open and close, open and close. And straight out of the gate, I knew that the Conscious Psychic Certification Program was never open and close. It is open year round, 365 days a year, 24 hours a day, seven days a week. You get the drill. Because I never want there to be a barrier between when you are ready and you feel called and when you can jump in. Also, I find it incredible to be able to be around people at different experience levels. Maybe they're further along in their development journey. Maybe they know different things than I do. I don't want to say more than I do and here's why. Maybe they are eight weeks into the program and I'm just coming in and I'm at week one. We always, as individuals, think that we are not as far along as someone else. And so they can't have the same problems that we have. And boo hoo, poor me. I am experiencing this all by my lonesome and no one knows where I'm at, right? And I freaking love. that after all of these years of teaching psychic development and teaching people that are like brand new and have never even that they've come to me and they're like, I don't know why, but I feel called to work with you. But like, I don't even know that you can actually help me because there's no way that I have a psychic connection. Ha ha. That's what I like. Oh, OK. That's interesting. Well. Buckle up because you're about to find out in the very first session together that you have a connection and it's working. uh But working with people that are brand new like that, to working with people that have been in the industry for a decade, two decades, et cetera, I see that we're all the same. And just because someone has more years of experience, doesn't mean that they are any further along in the level of confidence and faith and groundedness, their ability to receive clearly and easily and accurately, their ability to differentiate between their brain and when it's a message coming through, their ability to recognize when their brain is actually getting in the middle of a message, their ability to keep energy clear from themselves, from other people, like all the things, right? So I love the fact that this program provides the ability for everyone to see that it doesn't matter where you're at, how new you are, how experienced you are. You're all going to be faced with the same things and someone that has been, you know, 15 years in is going to have something that they are moving through or struggling with or blocked by that someone brand new is coming in and going, oh, I have that too. And it is so powerful to see on both sides that number one, the person with tenure, we'll call that that, the person with that experience, they're not, over here with an inflated ego, high and mighty on themselves, like, look at me and all I've done and all I've accomplished and all I know. They're being able to see like, oh, there's, we are all equal. We're all on a level playing field. And that is really important to me. Really, really important to me. And in fact, this is just like a little tangent, but one of the things that tying back in Soul Word Summit, one of the things that I loved so much about Soul Word Summit is that it was really important for them that there wasn't this like stage and then the audience, that everyone was on the same level and it didn't feel like it was a hierarchy. And as soon as I saw that, I was like, oh, okay, I've got to apply. I've got to say I won in. If you'll have me, I'm here because that is something that has been massively important to me. My entire experience in this work is that I just want people to know it's normal. Everyone's the same. There's nothing greater or less than you or me or anyone else. We're all just here doing the work that we're called to do. OK, momentary pause while my dogs went and barked at the propane man. Out here to refill our propane tank. So if you heard that in the background, I noticed on the previous episode that one of my dogs was snoring in the background. just love it. I love it. This is real life and we're doing it. We're doing it no matter what. So. All of that to say ongoing support or having this space where everyone is equal where you're never worried about how much farther ahead someone else's versus yourself. It's just so important to me. And that is what you're to find inside the Conscious Psychic Certification Program. Instead of this very boxed in, this is the start date, this is the end date for this group of people, and then we'll bring this group of people in and we'll bring this group of people in. Now, on the flip side, I understand why someone would want to do that. Because a lot of times in this work, in these developmental spaces, I mean, it can feel really vulnerable and it can feel really sacred in terms of, I mean, it should always be sacred, but it can feel like something that you want to be a very safe space. And you wanna make sure that... you can trust the people that you are in. can share your fears and share the things that like, oh, I tried this thing, you know, when I was doing this practice session and it wasn't working for me. there's safety that is desired to be able to come forward and say those things and share those things and feel like you're in a group of people that you know and trust that if you are to share something, they're gonna have your back. And that alone, I understand why so many containers are created in this very enrollment date kind of cohort, start and stop way. But here's where I come in on the other side of that. What I have seen, that that breeds, unfortunately, from the best of intentions. It's the great intentions going in. But what it actually creates is this false sense of safety and security where we are still just dipping our toe in, where we're still not really owning our blocks and limiting beliefs. Because guess what? If I feel safe enough around my close group of friends or, you know, my my trusted colleagues or whatever to share something vulnerable. Great. I was able to share that with them. I'm sure that that did something. I know that that did something for me and my growth and development to be able to be vulnerable and share that. But it doesn't eliminate the fears. Why? Because I haven't actually shown up to my fear. My fear isn't in being vulnerable with the people that I know and trust. then my fear is in being vulnerable around people that are going to fucking judge me. Or they're going to have thoughts about me or they're going to reflect back my fear to me that much more. That's the work. And so when we are in these very confined containers of like, oh, OK, well, I'm getting to know this like intimate group of people so I can feel safe and supported. We don't stretch ourselves. to find safety and support within ourselves. We lean on the dependency and the validation from other people, which also directly correlates to how confident, how trusting, how sure you are in your connection. Why? Because if you are lacking confidence in yourself in one area of your life, you are also lacking it in your connection. It's all related. It's all connected. And so for you to be in a space where I can only be vulnerable in front of people that I know, then you're only ever going to grow just slightly away from where you are. That's it. Like there's not a lot of room for growth there. But if you are willing to start showing up no matter who's present and sharing, and being vulnerable and being open and having the courage to do that, those are the skills, those are the things that you're going to need in order to achieve massive success in whatever you're here to do in life. Bottom line, utilizing your connection at the highest level, being able to operate from a very... strong sense of safety and security and confidence and trust and faith and groundedness in your connection, like all of that, that is going to reflect back to your experiences of being able to show up in a group of people that you may or may not know. Now, let's talk about the safety feature because that is important to me. I always want people to feel like they can say anything and it's a judgment free zone. It's a... safe space, etc. Like, we're all like-minded, right? In the sense that we all share this desire to strengthen our connection, to become grounded in it, to feel confident in it, to understand, you know, how to move through our blocks and limiting beliefs that are keeping us from feeling that. And I structure my groups that way. I have a zero tolerance policy for bullshit. So if someone's coming in and they are harassing or they are spewing a bunch of negative hate or I mean they don't it doesn't have to be a bunch right like if they're just not being a good human being Bye Right I live by the golden rule treat someone the way that you would want to be treated period like it's that simple so Of course, there's going to be safety created than that, but our minds desire this very safe, intimate space where I can just get to know and trust a small group of people. But guess what? You stay stuck there. You just develop further blocks and limiting beliefs. So that's a really long way to go about saying why it was so important for me for it to be open as far as enrollment. Like anyone can come in at any time, doesn't matter. And that exposes you to the ability to continuously show up courageously, continually meet people that are in different um areas of their life, of their connection, of their development, and to see that y'all are the same. There's nothing separating you. There's nothing to fear. Let's talk about what the ongoing support actually looks like because there's several pieces to this and I am freaking excited about this. All right, first of all, inside of the Contrapsychic Certification Program, so we've talked about the curriculum, we've talked about the confidence formula, there is also a private community. Now, I'm gonna share with you why this community is different than what you might expect. typically when you go into different programs and they have communities with them and I've designed things like this and realized, okay, this is doing exactly what I don't want it to do. Close this down. um This has been very intentionally curated to not be what I'm gonna share with you. What I have learned is not actually helpful in our growth and development. Typically what you'll find in a community is like, this is just kind of a... a free for all forum of yes, we can connect and we can share our experiences and we can also bitch about things and we can also um try to promote our services and push them on to other people and it can just get really sticky and nasty and it just doesn't feel good, right? So this community inside of the Contra Psychic Certification Program, this is got very distinct spaces. One of them is a Q &A space. And this goes in, this ties into the ongoing support. This is where you can come in and you have unlimited access to asking your questions and getting your answers from me. Being able to receive that direct support of, okay, I just went through this module or I just did this challenge or I just did this practice session or whatever, I just... Did this thing, maybe it's even in your business, if you're actively utilizing your connection in your business, but you're like, I just came across this thing or whatever, and I have a question. This is what I'm faced with. I need support. And having that ability to drop in there is so powerful. Being able to consume uh the program content, like the curriculum, and ask your questions right then and there. I go, okay, this came up, I'm asking this question, and I know that I'm gonna receive the answer and I'll be able to integrate that into my experience. That's huge, huge. And the thing is, is that it doesn't stop once you've gone through the five months of certification of curriculum of all the parts and pieces, you still have access to that Q &A. So you can drop in at any time. a month later, a year later, it doesn't matter. You can drop in at any time and ask a question and receive that support. You also have inside of that community, there's space where it's literally like a forum for dropping your social media channels, because everybody loves to do that, dropping your social media channels, but it has strict rules. This is not a follow for follow, like for like kind of BS thing. There is nothing worse and I think that we can all agree. You can feel. You can feel someone's energy when they are desperate, when they are graspy, when they're like, oh my God, just need more people to follow me or I just, you know, I'm following you, but I'm following you so that you'll follow me. Ew. That's gross. I do not condone that. It is disgusting behavior. If you do that, you should stop. because it's only creating more limiting beliefs for yourself. It's only creating more doubts, more like, it's just not good business. It's gonna affect you in so many ways, but this is a space where you can drop your spaces, you know, like your social media handles or whatever, where people can connect with you if they feel called, where you can connect with other people if you feel called, but it's literally just that. This is not. um Oh, I just shared this post and I want you to see it. No, no uh Nobody likes that ah If we want to follow you will follow you if people want to follow you they'll follow you right it's that kind of energy so it's very non Committal non pressured. I want you to do what you feel called to that's the important thing in all of this is You learn to listen to your connection more than anything else. Stop exposing yourself to outside pressures and stop pressuring other people. So there's that. uh There's a couple of other spaces inside of the community, which we'll go into at another time. But there's just these places where you can receive ongoing support. OK. You're also going to get a weekly live. call with me every single week. Every. Single. Week. What? This is a live call that you can jump on zoom and you can get direct mentorship support. Coaching, etc. Teaching like for you for what you've got going on for what you're facing for what you're. You're needing support with. Because here's the thing, this is not just about learning the skill or learning the technique or learning, you know, how to create a stronger channel. This is about all of the aspects of you as a human being that come into play. When it comes to really, truly being grounded and anchored and confident in your connection. It's so important that you have the support that you need. And here's why this was important to me. It first started out as, I'll do it once a month. So I was like, you have so much, so much access to support, right? Like to questions, to answers, like you can ask your questions at any time inside of the private community. I'll come in and answer those. We'll have a call. Like there's just so much information available to you. And I changed that from once a month to once a week because I was like, no, this is, I really want you to be able to know that if you need to bridge your gap, if there's something that you're faced with, if there's something that shows up for you, that you can receive the support quickly and easily versus. trying to go out here and solve for yourself. And the reason why this was important is because I have seen again and again and again that so often we as human beings, because it's just the way that our brain works naturally, when we have a problem, we try to solve it in a very specific, forward-facing way. We think that, you know, oh, well, if I don't have faith in... my connection or I don't trust what's coming through, I just need to go out here and do more readings and have more validation from people so that I can know that it's true. People telling you that your readings are awesome, that you're right on, that everything resonated, that you got everything right, like none of that shit matters. That's not going to make you trust your connection. I can tell you that from personal experience. And from watching my clients over the last five years that I've taught in psychic development, other people boosting you up, that's not going to bridge the gap to your confidence. It's a very tiny piece, but it only goes so far because that comes from within. That comes from knowing yourself, your human self so deeply that you know and understand when a message is coming through versus when it's your brain. so that you're no longer questioning because if you are doubting the things that are coming in and you're needing outside validation, it's actually because you still can't tell for sure whether it's your brain, whether you're making shit up or it's actually coming through your connection. So having that ability to problem solve correctly, this is what I've seen again and again from my one-on-one clients that When they have that opportunity with me to say, is what I'm faced with, and I can go, okay, I know you're wanna solve it like this, but here's actually the solution. Here's how you solve for this. That keeps them from going down the wrong path and spending too much time trying to solve for something and beating themselves up and making even further disbelief and doubt and struggle. It takes them from that to, oh okay, I'll just go do that. And then they can continue to move forward. They can continue to grow and develop and just expand in their experiences and their connections. So I wanted you to have access to that. And it is really important to me that no matter how big my company grows, that you always know I am here for your best and highest good. I'm here to support you. I love this work. And quite frankly, it was painful for me, personally painful for me, the idea of going down to one call a month, you know, I've been used to working with clients one-on-one for years and creating my six figure business, doing that, and then going to a group container and focusing more on that aspect of things. I'm like, no, what I love, what I love more than anything is being able to help someone, just being able to assist them. They're like, I get so geeked out when I am doing a TikTok or doing a reel and I'm like, hey, let me know what you're struggling with and I will create something like I'll create a reel or create a TikTok to respond to that. and share with you what's going on and how you can fit. Like, I love that. It makes me so happy. Like, the happiest. And so for me, the idea of dwindling that down, limiting the access to me just because that's quote unquote how you do it in a business, it just felt wrong for me. It works for other people and that's... great for them and that's what they love. But I love serving. I love being of service. I love being in service. I love just being able to share my knowledge, to teach, to help someone else. So you're gonna have that weekly access to those live calls every single week. as you're moving throughout the program, which is going to be so helpful for you to get that like, oh, OK, I can ask questions inside of the community. I can ask questions on these live calls. I can jump on when something's coming out and I just like really need to like talk through it versus, you know, typing it out inside of the community. I have access to all of these spaces where I can receive the support. And here's the thing. It's on going. It's for. the lifetime of the program. So no matter what happens in your experiences, as you continue to just like go out in the world and do your amazing things and use your connection in all the ways that you feel called and like just being in your joy and your experiences and your soul mission and purpose, you can come back and receive that support from me as you need it. And I love that. I love that so much. I love the idea that you never have to truly feel alone in this journey. That you can come back and ask your questions, get your support, show up live, have me answer things for you directly. It's just, I love it. It, I'm gonna cry, but it makes me so. so fulfilled to do this and... And that's a wrap, folks. uh That is what ongoing support is all about inside the Conscious Psychic Certification Program. I was like, oh my God, I'm not going to be able to get through this. My throat was just closing up from the tears welling in my eyes. I can feel the thickness uh of my throat now. So you can come in at any time. Doors are open for enrollment. The link is in the show notes below. and I cannot wait to see you and support you for as long as you need.